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蒙神帶領賜福的婚姻 方洪靜娜姊妹感恩分享

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婚姻是神所設立,神說,那人獨居不好,因此人要離開父母與妻子連合成為一體,這是極大的奧秘。各人都當愛妻子,如同愛自己一樣,妻子也當敬重她的丈夫。
	婚姻是神所設立的,美滿的婚姻更是神所恩賜。我們的婚姻充滿神的帶領和祝福,我心裏常常感恩。當回顧十五年來的婚姻歷程,我自然地緬懷到一位屬靈長者丁榮施醫生。(丁醫生去年2011年4月30日在澳洲悉尼被主接回天家,享高壽91歲。)感謝主賜如此一位疼愛我的長輩,特別感謝他為我的婚姻專心恆切禱告,使我得到如此的恩福。
	我出生於基督徒家庭,但是在大學時才真正決志信主的,那時我明白自己的婚姻對象一定要是主內弟兄,因為同心才能同行。我生長在一個很有愛的家庭,但小時候因少接觸異性,家教也嚴,所以在與異性接觸時有一些障礙。我很怕面對自己喜歡或有好感的人,常常是躲之遠遠,讓人莫名其妙。而我在覺得不可能或不喜歡的人面前,卻很輕鬆,有時難免因而產生誤會,而把我嚇壞了。我的好友們出國的出國,結婚的結婚,而我已32歲了,卻只有16歲的心態,還沒談過戀愛。我這麼古怪,加上主內弟兄又少,使我對自己的婚姻真的缺乏信心。也許是我太看重它了,執著地認為戀愛就必是婚姻。不過我心裏仍願意信靠神,等候且順服祂的安排,也有當老姑娘的心理準備。
	這時候,我的好友給我介紹她在美國“信主”的電腦工程師表哥Jimmy。其實這位Jimmy當時還沒真正決志信主,他表妹只知道他有上教會。好友滿有經驗地說:“像你這麼緊張的人,適合通信戀愛。”也許吧,我喜歡精神戀愛,也很注重對方的文筆和內涵,我同意了。只是第一封信,Jimmy就坦誠告訴我,他還沒真正信主,當時我想立即停止通信。他表妹又說:“你可以帶他信主呀!”不久,Jimmy回國探親,那是95年11月初,我在廣州。他計劃先到廣州,然後回汕頭老家,再返廣州回美國。我只有禱告求主帶領,也將此事請主內長輩丁醫生代禱。那時丁醫生即將移民澳洲,他很疼愛我,對我的婚姻有負擔,一直在為我禱告。我和Jimmy被安排在廣州“白天鵝”賓館第一次見面。經過交託主後,我心裏很自在,見到Jimmy時沒有怕他,只覺得他像大哥哥(其實他只大我三歲),與他交談還挺自然愉快。據Jimmy後來的“坦白”,他第一次見到我就很喜歡我了,而且很用心,到汕頭後登門拜訪了我爸爸媽媽,也給我家人留下很好的印象。
	11月19日Jimmy從汕頭回廣州,準備乘23日一早的飛機回美。那時自11月19日至22日三天,丁醫生便謝絕一切來訪,專心為我這件事禱告。11月22日下午,我帶Jimmy到丁醫生家,我們很輕鬆地坐談,也用了點心。臨走時丁醫生突然對Jimmy說:“看來神要祝福你,賜給你一位妻子,靜娜在我身邊十幾年,她很好。”嚇死我了,乘Jimmy下樓上洗手間時,我對丁醫生說:“丁醫生,你剛才怎麼能那樣講?我們只見過幾次面,他明天就要回美國了。”丁醫生笑笑地說:“很好,這個人可以和你一同走天路。”從丁醫生家出來後,我趕緊補上說:“剛才丁醫生講的,請你別在意。他老人家太著急我的事了。”Jimmy說:“不要緊,讓神來安排,讓時間來證明。”
	Jimmy回美國後,開始給我打電話和寫長信,很高興我們可以用家鄉潮州話通話,他的筆跡和文筆也不錯。我爸爸看過他的信後說:“這個人是想尋找一位知己愛人,伴侶,情人和朋友,值得考慮。”96年3月份,我在紐約的好友邀請Jimmy到教會聽福音,Jimmy受感動而接受救恩信主。整整通了十二封信後,96年7月2日神安排一個機會讓我順利來到美國。在我家人的贊同,我工作單位的放行,護照和推薦信的順利妥辦,以及美國領事館的簽證等事上,神都通通為我開綠燈。我好像上了船,坐穩,不用出力就到達彼岸。在這些事上再次讓我經歷到神,看到祂的帶領。出於神的,真是奇妙!恰如聖經所言:“等候信靠耶和華的,必不至羞愧。”
	“人要離開父母,與妻子結合,二人成為一體。”(創世記2:24)。96年9月9日在親人們和主內弟兄姊妹祝福聲中,我們結婚了!神藉此藉彼讓我清楚明白祂的旨意。神所安排賜給的是最好最合適的,祂不會錯!我好像是蒙著眼睛過來結婚的,我是把所有的賭注放在神手中。我們如同先結婚後戀愛,婚後我越來越發現Jimmy的優點:我們有著很多的默契和共鳴,也互相彌補。Jimmy自小喜愛體育,很會吃苦耐勞。他熱愛生活,富有藝術感(他喜歡畫畫、攝影等);他執著而不刻板,理智卻不乏情感和浪漫。還有著男人少有的細心,加上他對我特別有耐心,能體諒容忍我的“古怪”。他雖不富有,卻有豐富的內涵;更重要的是他讓我感受到他真的很愛我,我也越來越愛他。雖然婚後我們的生活真的成為知己愛人,伴侶,情人和朋友。我們很感謝丁醫生和那麼多親人一直關心和愛心的禱告,更加珍惜神賜的所有這一切。神是生命和愛的源頭,祂愛我們,為每個人精心設計。願主光照啟示,賜智慧力量,使我們活得更清楚有意義,跟隨主所帶領前面的路,為神作美好的見證,感謝讚美愛我們的耶和華上帝。阿們。

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鴿子的形像     
        慈繩愛索
	你有沒有想過上帝在耶穌受洗時,為什麼選擇鴿子作為聖靈的象徵呢?綜合幾位權威人士的意見,得到幾個很有意思的結論。第一、鴿子是鳥類中,唯一沒有膽囊的。換句話說,鴿子的肚裡既沒有「酸」的東西,也沒有「苦」的東西,裡面全是甜的、滿有愛心。因此,用鴿子來象徵聖靈,實在是最恰當不過了。
	接下來,我們看到挪亞從方舟放出一隻鴿子。晚上那隻鴿子飛回來,口中銜著橄欖葉,表示洪水已經退了,象徵上帝的懲罰「過去了」,一個新的天地正歡迎著方舟裏那一家八口人。鴿子和橄欖葉已成為「和平」的象徵。鴿子也含有「上帝救恩之福」與「上帝賜下平安」之意。雅歌中說:「你的眼好像鴿子眼。」鴿子是一夫一妻制的動物。因此,當聖靈內住在信徒的心裏,我們的眼睛便「只看耶穌,不看其他的人」。
	鴿子還有許多特色,比如說牠的溫柔、美麗、純潔,都很適宜用來象徵聖靈。聖靈像鴿子,降在耶穌身上,叫他遵父的旨意而行;今天,同樣的靈也要幫助我們活出得勝的見證來。

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奇異恩典
	奇異恩典,何等甘甜,我罪已得赦免,前我失喪,今被尋回,瞎眼今得看見。
	如此恩典,使我敬畏,使我心得安慰,初信之時,我蒙恩惠,真是何等寶貴。
	歷經艱險勞苦奔走,我今來到主前,都是主恩扶持保佑,恩典帶進永久。
	住在天家千萬年歲,如日無限光明,時時頌讚時日不多,好像初唱凱歌。阿們。
	

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