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我儿子的病如何化危为安   若愚姐妹

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刘姊妹年幼的宝贝儿子,突然发现他大便出血,使刘姊妹心惊恐、流泪、难过,但是后来如何化危为安呢?
 
看到小儿子和姊姊们一起玩,完全正常,并且长高了,也健壮了很多,我们真是由衷的感谢主爱的看顾和保守。
 
三年前的十月廿三日,星期五晚上。正当我和外子准备去查经班时,刚过两岁生日的小儿子建华,从马桶上下来,我吓了一跳, 整个马桶内是红色的。看样子是血,又像色素。外子反应很快,他说:「他吃了很多豆沙呀!」我虽然觉得不大对,但也没有太坚持。因为六月时,孩子的粪便中,也还有一次呈红色,那时我也很担心,观察了三、四天之后,又恢复正常。当时以为是山渣片吃得太多了,或许这次也只是吃多了豆沙的缘故。我心里想,这种牌子的豆沙不能买,色素那么多!
 
当天晚上我们就去了查经班,研读使徒行传第廿七章,叙述保罗和一些囚犯和百夫长等在海上遇难的经过,带领查经的黄弟兄做了以下的结论:「我们基督徒常会受到撒旦的试探···神并没有应许基督徒的生活,天色常蓝、花香常漫。因为基督自己道成肉身在世时,也为我们受了许多苦难。但是神却应许我们,患难时与我们同在,保守护佑,平安渡过一切艰难。」当时这些话使很多人深受感动。而我心中仍觉得有些惶恐忧惧,要经历世间的一切患难,危困,软弱,胆怯的我们,怎么能和刚强无畏的主耶稣相比呢?那种心情就好像听到世界末日可能发生的各种景象,心里恐惧极了。
 
次日星期六,孩子的粪便没有那么红,但比较黑,到了晚上,我意识到事情不是那么简单。联想到六月份那一次,也觉得不是因为山渣片的绿故,想着想着,心头好像有一块大石压住,心情沉重起来。礼拜天上午,我们一方面联络医生检验粪便,一方面赶去做礼拜,教会的弟兄姊妹们都劝我们快去看医生,师母在我们走时,很关切的安慰我们,并且说:「要多为这件事祷告」
 
到了诊所,医生是特地回来化验粪便的。他一眼看到粪便说是血,而且很多,检验结果也证实如此。他说:「如果是我的孩子,我会立刻办理住院,免得惊慌,也避免发生后悔莫及的后果。粪便带血,有几种可能性: 一、是肠子型态变了。二、是肿瘤,良性或恶性都可能。三、是结肠发炎,听了医生的话,我无法止住盈眶的眼泪,万一是癌症的话,以后的日子怎么过下去。这种事为什么会发生在我儿子身上呢?对我们来说,这和面临世界末日差不多了!
 
我们本来打算带建华去设备较完善的纽约大学附属医院急诊处, 然后住进医院,由于天色已晚,孩子的小儿科医生建议我们,先到附近的法拉盛医院急诊处量血的指数。如果不是很低,就仍回家过夜,明天再找医生做其他检验。法拉盛医院的医生经过检验后,即坚持应该立刻让孩子住院查明病因。此刻我们真是焦急慌乱,不知所措,经过再三考虑,决定还是即刻送孩子到纽约大学附属医院急诊处。
 
一路上我们诚心向主祷告呼求说:「主啊,我们不知道你的旨意如何,求你指引我们。任何事在人看来是不能的,在你却是无所不能。我们将建华交在你的手中,求你亲自医治看顾他,奉主耶稣的名求,阿们!」我们也求主光照自己有没有不合主心意的地方,向主悔改、认错,求主宝血洗净。
 
在急诊处又做了两项检验,一是通管子进胃,看是否胃出血,结果没有。二是照X光,看肠子是否变型,结果没有。那位年轻的女医生安慰我们说:「大概只是便秘,没有那么严重。」但是我们提出心中的疑惑,那不像是便秘的颜色,而且孩子一向没有便秘的现象。医生要我们回家观察,并且教我们再做几项追踪检查。回到家门,天色已经透亮,真是漫长的一夜啊!
 
接着两天,孩子的粪便仍然呈现黑红色,想起法拉盛医院的医生所说的话,恐惧又笼罩了我,觉得不能再拖下去,决定再带孩子回到纽约大学附属医院住院。慌乱中无意检到大女儿上主日学的一张圣经金句,其中有一句说:「『耶稣救活了睚鲁的女儿。」我心中顿觉小儿子一定有救,于是打开马可福音,读到耶稣赶鬼,又有几件医好病人的事迹,都提到「信心」,要凭「信心」得救。耶稣常说:「你的信心救了你」又说:「不要怕,只要信。」我马上得到安慰,哈利路亚!
 
住进医院的儿童病房,我必须在孩子身边,寸步不离,他只有两岁,却要接受一连串的检验。量体温,听诊这些都很普通,频频抽血,使得他一见到有人带着仪器走近,便吓得大哭,力气又大,几个大人都制服不了他,有人笑称他是「小战士」 。不但皮肉受苦, 吃东西也受限制,又加上内心的惊恐,眼见他那样痛楚,令我非常难过,常常陪着孩子一同流泪。
 
放眼看去邻近几个病床上躺着的,都是和建华年龄差不多的儿童,刚出生的婴儿也不少,形形式式的病症,有的闻所未闻。有一个先天心瓣有洞须补起来,也有天生癌症的,每年得住院治疗一段时间。还有一个五个月大的婴儿,因为头骨组织突变,头变得奇大, 多数都需要动手术的。孩子们的哭喊声音,此起彼落,忧心关切的父母则在一旁饮泣,此情此景真是令人心酸。更有一位小妹妹是中国人,已经开了八次刀,身上疤痕累累,实在可怜。她的祖父是位牧师,她母亲的家人,都是虔诚的基督徒,母亲自己却还未信主。因为工作忙碌,交通不便,一直没有机会去听福音。在医院中,我常常对这位母亲分享自己的经历,把从福音书中所领受的安慰,以及对人生观的改变告诉她,并且劝她多多祷告,外子并要我带领我们三个人一起祷告。平常在查经班上,查经前有分组祷告, 我不会也不习惯开声祷告,每次都想躲避。感谢主,这一次我用信心祷告,毫无畏缩的心理,后来这位太太对我说,她很喜欢听我祷告,给她很大的安慰。
 
接着要给孩子做几项特别的检验,每一种对孩子都是很痛苦的, 幸亏我们选对了检验的项目,免去了另外两项痛苦。经过扫描检查,医生证实建华是结肠发炎。感谢主,并不是癌症。医生要我们决定立即动手术,不要为输血的问题犹豫不决,免致病况恶化不可收拾。我们再次诚心祷告,将孩子交托给神。牧师、师母和一些亲友也来探望并为他祈祷。
 
我们教孩子躺在床上用简单的话祷告,每次入睡前,教他唱主日学的歌「不要怕,只要信···」他都很乖巧地跟着学,并且虔诚的说:「阿们!」感谢恩主垂听了我们一切的呼求代祷。手术前后一切顺利,使我们心头大石落地,疲惫的身体也得以舒展。手术后建华的口鼻须插一管子到胃去抽出多余的胃酸,但是不知怎的,这根管子一直不能发挥作用,几位医生来替他调整,都不见改善,如此折腾了好久,孩子感到很不舒服。我们除了祷告,束手无策,忽然我想起,此刻正是教会查经的时候,多人的祷告必更有力量,立刻打电话给牧师,请众弟兄姊妹为建华祷告。非常奇妙,那管子不久就顺利的抽出胃酸,天父再次垂听我们的祈求,也让我学习到信心仰望的功课。
 
手术后九天,原定孩子可以出院了,但就在一切准备就绪,临行之前,建华突然连续呕吐两次。医生为他X光,显示胃部有些阻塞、必须重新打点滴、禁食、禁水,而且留院仔细观察,以防发生别的症状、想到孩子又要遭受抽血和检查的痛苦,真有说不出的沮丧,似乎难再承受这新的打击,惟有再度俯首祷告,求神扶持,加添力量,将一切交托给主。
 
就在这延迟出院的几天中,再有机会和邻床女孩的父母交谈, 安慰鼓励他们。圣经上说「我们在一切患难中,他就安慰我们,叫我们能用上帝所赐的安慰,去安慰那遭各样患难的人。」四天后, 孩子各项检验一切正常,医生批准出院。临行前邻床的太太告诉我们,她打算迁居到教会附近,以后可以来参加聚会听福音,感谢赞美主,祂的旨意虽然难测,但是,祂的安排却是那么美好!
 
虽然,建华这次经过的是一个普通的手术,但却充满了危机,和困难的抉择,时时刻刻都是依靠主,才得以度过,而这场「仗」 到回家后没有打完。建华回家后,头一、两天很正常,后来又开始呕吐,甚至厌食,整个人苍白无力,而且自己不肯走,一直要我抱着。我们东猜西测:是吃得太多呢?还是太少?是什么食物引起的?连医生也不明原因,不知如何是好。
 
有一天师母和我一同查经时,读到彼得和耶稣行在海面上,因彼得见风很大,就害怕,将要沉下去,耶稣赶紧伸手拉住他说:「你这小信的人哪,为什么疑惑呢?」我想,大概因我们信心不够,只注重「风浪」的缘故,于是又坚定信心,信靠交托给主,牧师和弟兄姊妹也同心代求,然后小心调理孩子的饮食,渐渐地,建华的健康日见进步。如今除了偶尔感冒,耳朵发炎之类的小毛病,其他发育一切正常,全家又恢复了往日的欢笑。
 
从这次建华的病,蒙主医治的事上,我们深深体会到神的慈爱和信实。当魔鬼撒旦试探我们时,也是神试炼我们的时刻。如能凭着悔改坚定的信心,支持到底就能见神美好的旨意。
 
腓立比书四章六至七节告诉我们,「应当一无挂虑,只要凡事借着祷告,祈求和感谢,将你们所要的告诉上帝,上帝所赐出人意外的平安,必在基督耶稣里保守你们的心怀意念。」
 
愿感谢、颂赞归与天父和主耶稣基督,直到永永远远。阿们!
 
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